It is sometimes easy to publicly proclaim your volunteerism. I have often wondered why people do it? I worked for a non-profit whose volunteers rarely looked for public acknowledgement. One person was actually asked to accept an award as a volunteer of the year...but refused the honor...why? Because she knew the honor was in the opportunity to serve not in the recognition of others...the only people she cared to please...were those she generously gave her heart and her time to. My mother used to serve in many capacities...over the years I grew to understand my mother's need to give...to offer. But my mother would also shy away from public recognition for doing what came so naturally.
Unfortunately sometimes, those who claim good deeds,have other agendas...and those agendas are never good.
Disagree? Read on...
Doing Good Deeds and Accumulating Virtue is the Fountain of Good Fortune
In China's several thousand years of history, "Do good deeds to accumulate virtue" is a traditional code of conduct that has been valued until today.
In Shang Shu (also known as the Book of History), the author wrote: "Only virtue can move the heavens." In Han Shu (also called, History of the Early Han Dynasty): "Those who do good deeds secretly will be rewarded by heaven." Therefore, people taught their children not to do anything bad, but to do good deeds as much as they possible. Lesson One in how to be a human is to "plant a good seed, harvest a good fruit." In the Qing Dynasty, the children's book, Poems of Elementary School, stated, "Accumulating virtue leads to good fortune; dishonest conduct only makes your life more miserable."
A scholar of the Yi-Ching (The Book of Changes) in the Three Kingdom Era named Yao Xin wrote an article called "For my children to follow" in order to tell his own children to do good deeds and gain positive consequences as a result. The following is what he wrote:
"The ancients did not do good deeds to seek a good reputation, nor did they do it to comply with the requests of others. Their good deeds came from their own internal motivation. They believed that this is what human beings are supposed to do. Therefore, it didn't matter what their situations were, difficult or successful, their virtuous conduct would not change. They were always consistent. Their conduct met the standards of the gods, and it also conformed to everyday people's behaviour. Therefore, gods took care of them and people respected them. Naturally, their good reputation did spread and good fortune kept coming. It had to be that way.
Some people appeared to be moderate and humble, but they had hidden agendas. They pretended to be honest and sincere, but in reality they were tricky and selfish. When such a person heard praise, he could not hide his delight and his ego grew bigger. When he heard criticism, he immediately lost interest in doing good deeds. If his reputation or position were lost, the person became angry and wanted to slander and frame good people. But when he blamed another person, everyone disliked him; when he framed a good person, everyone hated him. So if he tried to get a promotion at someone else's expense, it did not work. He only brought more damage to himself.
It's impossible to hide the truth forever; praise and criticism cannot be arbitrarily twisted. If one can abandon one's hypocritical behaviour and is open to good suggestions, if one abandons subjective notions and focuses on other people's positive sides, then the person can be open to everything and has nothing to hide. If one can get rid of being overly confident and selfish, always think of other's interests and stay away from bad places and evil activities, one can have a safe and prosperous life and be on the way to being a great person.
People's social status is not fixed forever. Everything is caused by oneself. If one keeps doing good deeds, a commoner's son can become a royal official; if one doesn't do good deeds, then the son from a noble family can become a commoner. Once you realise these principles, how can you not remind yourself to do good deeds?"
Fortune, longevity, safety and all kinds of other good things are all based on virtue. This principle has been validated over and over by numerous people throughout history. Therefore, the ancient sages and ancestors not only taught their children to believe that "good deeds bring good rewards," they also repeatedly told their children how important it is to do good deeds and accumulate virtue.
It seems to me that there is such a wondrous thing that occurs when we give simply because we have the opportunity to do so. It is a trans-formative thing. It is affirming, and it is important to our humanity. My mother would say that it is divinely inspired...and I would agree. But we also should be aware that although it is good to recognize those who do good...the reason for humility is even greater...for it keeps the act consistent with the intent...
It is sometimes difficult to remember that we are all capable of compassion and the need for compassion. It is more difficult to be compassionate to those who wrong you...I know this lesson well. So, sometimes in the quiet of the night, I read through words on pages I have read so many times...looking for inspiration, and a little hope...tonight I looked and found this litte gem.
During my second year of nursing school our professor gave us a quiz. I breezed through the questions until I read the last one: "What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?" Surely this was a joke. I had seen the cleaning woman several times, but how would I know her name? I handed in my paper, leaving the last question blank. Before the class ended, one student asked if the last question would count toward our grade. "Absolutely," the professor said. "In your careers, you will meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention and care, even if all you do is smile and say hello." I've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her name was Dorothy. ~Joann C. Jones
Here are a few more...
A fellow who does things that count, doesn't usually stop to count them. ~Variation of a saying by Albert Einstein
When I was young, I admired clever people. Now that I am old, I admire kind people. ~Abraham Joshua Heschel
We sometimes learn about ourselves through the mirror of our actions...and deeds, but sometimes we are fooled into believing that the mirror is actually a reflection of the good in us...rather than the false agenda of merely "appearing good".
What is the truth of the good deed? Oh I don't know...but it is important to one person...that is the recipient...and that is all that matters...now isn't it?
One more thought...those who are truly kind...only want to do more...it is contagious. I think it is...just like a good smile.
Sunday, December 9, 2007
good deeds??? virtue or useful endeavor of the those lacking in virtue?
Posted by A lass at 11:02 PM
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